It has long been my opinion that the idea of
straight men is a myth.
There really is no such thing.
Now before you all scream in horror fellas hear me out.
At some time in their life most men have some sort of experimentation with other men.
One experience of experimentation is ok its what it is trying it out for size and to see how
it fits .
Any thing more than once is either you like it or you are getting in to the idea.
More than one guy and you are definitely more than a visitor you are one of the what
I always think of as Homosexuals i.e. you like having sex with other men agreed not only
with other men but you are definitely a practising homosexual if you have had sex more
than once with more than one guy.
Now I would not at this point describe you as gay that’s a whole different ball game I would
also not say that it matters much what sort of sex you have indulged in either.
Homosexuality comes in many forms from full on tong down the throat snogging your mate
to full blown anal shagging and all stops in between.
Being gay on the other hand is a full on political life style choices that you make with a
concious stances against the rest of the statues quo. In an effort to change the society in
which you have no choices but to exist. It is a choices you make to fight the oppression you
experience on a day to day basis from the world around you and you take that decision in
the light that you hope to give heart to your self and others who feel oppressed.
As crazy as it seems some of the gayest people I have known have never had
sex with any one male or female there are also any number of gays I know who
have had a full and active sex life and those who have been married with kids
and all after a period of male companionship but none of them would ever
describe them selves as any thing but gay there are of course the other gays
who see their politics as being what they do and shun any one from the gay
world who is not strictly male on male. It is a widely diverse life style and its
some what for a number of guys a fashion statement as much as a sexual or
political one. This is largely because gays come in all shapes sizes and social and
political persuasion
Gay for me is the fight for the right to be accepted and not be discriminated against for
what ever you do sexually as an adult as long as it is done consensually.
Gay is the fight to establish the right of all people to sexual liberation and freedom
regardless of race colour or creed.
Now this of course conflicts with most religious ideology’s in that you cant really be a
Christian fundamentalist and be gay or a fundamentalist Muslim and be gay.
that’s why there needs to be the division between church and state no one should swear
on the bible in any court of law or on any holy book affirmation of you self is the only way
forward on that one. Being a good citizen cannot depend on belonging to a religious sect
you are a citizen of the world.
So all you guys and girls out there who look at gay porn on the web or at any porn on
the web if you enjoy it your homosexual what ever you might say. because you enjoy
your own sex.
Homo as in homo-sapians: Sexual as in sexual activity:
So if you like it you are it get use to it.
Stop all this shit prejudice stuff and get on with your lives and stop being so
uptight .
We are all sexual beings and our nearest relatives are the Benobo monkeys
they have it right!
Just do it if it feels right.
Remember monogamy is a life style and it takes two to be monogamous its
not monogamy if its only one of you. If you are monogamous and your partner
is not you are just being abused and probably stuck in a power play relationship .
take care out there It`s a jungel.
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