Women and equality.

 

The Primadona attitude of women at least some of them.

• I have never considered my self to be a male chauvinist.

• I grew up with a mother who held to the view

“why would I want to lower my standing to be equal to men.”

She Often said “ Me Female, Me Superior, You Male, You Inferior.”

She held that men

• Where there as creatures of protection like a guard dogs.

• Men where there to provide for her, carry for her, do her bidding.

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She ruled the house, the home, the family and my fathers reward was to be her husband and companion. In turn she provided him with children and food and a comfortable home and clean fresh clothes.

They are both in their eights now and still together and devoted to each other after 60+ years of marriage and five children, 6 grandchildren another on the way.

Now however she is blind and has mobility problems and has to be looked after by my father and my self her oldest gay son. There life has been one joys sorrows and so far very fulfilled.

Out in the rest of the world I feel that most women have missed the point some how and are confused and spit full and believe they are missing out on something. Many of them treat men as a

commodity to be used and abused they seem to rip men off when involved in the heterosexual mating game.

The number of my heterosexual mates of mine that have been royally taken to the cleaners by so called new liberated women who think they can have it all is unbelievable.

As an example

A friend of mine had a partner who had a child from a previous coupling. They married he bought a house and supported her and his step daughter they had a son later she stayed at home he provided for them all by working his butt off. Till one day the boy was about 2 years old he came home to find that she had been having a relationship with a guy who was unemployed and lived locally they ran off together leaving the children with a neighbour. mate came home from work and was just aghast at what had happened he was left with the two children.

After five years when he had given up work and become a single parent to raise the children she came back tried to sue him for divorce sited me as co-respondents in the divorce proceedings and stated he was an unfit father due to his latent homosexuality she wanted the house or at least part of it and the children to get a council house in the mean time for her and her now new boy friend and expected child. Needless to say I went to court and helped him fight the case although it ruined my relationship with him and he moved away and I have seen very little of him or the children.

I have recently been told of a guy who got back together with his wife borrowed money to do up the house and to get her a new car only to be thrown out and have a court injunction taken out against him for what appears to be no apparent reason.

In another case the wife is still demanding to be supported by the ex husband and makes his life a misery at every chance she gets even though the children are now grown up left home and she still has the family home in her hands despite the fact that the ex husband paid for it and I know of several cases like this.

In another case a mate who discovered his gay sexuality after he had a wife and three children he split from the family leaving her with the house and the children as was her request

He tried his best to support his family worked all the hours god sent to pay for a house a wife the children and a place for himself to live but tragically his wife killed two of the three children and her self.

After 55 years of life I am glade that I have been lucky with my female friends and that most have been and remain fairly stable individuals [more like my mum].

I do however believe that much of this attitude from women to grab at every thing and be accusatives comes from the drive to make a nest and the fear of hard times and lack that haunts them when they are driven by their animal instincts to provided for expected offspring.

Males on the other hand are the same when their sexual dominance and territory is threatened then their animal instinct to fight and rut comes into play.

We all would do well to remember that the wild animal still only lurks just under the surface in spite of the great show of civilisation we put on

From the view I have of life.

• Women have always had the upper hand and men are only the way they are because women created men that way.

• If they want something different they had better do a better job of creating what they want.

• Alternatively give the children over to men to bring up.

I believe that men would make a better job of it any way.

Until we have mastered genetic modification to a level where men can have

children for them selves or clone them selves, women will always be the superior sex no matter what men think or are trained by the mothers to believe.

Both sexes being able to reproduce will be the only real step to equality, how ever un- ecological it may appear. So unless we learn to live together in an amicable state not using and abusing each other regardless of sex race colour or creed and only bring children into the world when we are stable and completely at one with our selves the suffering on the wheel of Karma seems set to continue a pace.